Weird openings

Thing is, to others, our openings will always seem odd. Until we admit we have those openings. I met a couple who have been together for twenty years and never told each other they had tricks or hook ups or even short term lovers on the side. As long as their time together didn’t suffer. […]

Open relationships?

Monogamy is to have sex and emotional relationship with one person. An “open relationship” can take many configurations, sex with others, at home, in a cheesy airlines lavatory, under a desk at work, or emotional relationships with others, a straight gym trainer or a priest in a confessionary. The aviary of “open relationships” has birds of all […]

89.9 Radio Interview

On Tuesday, March 4th Francisco was interviewed by 89.9 WORT’s host, Karma Chavez to discuss his new book, “Giving It Raw: Nearly 30 Years with AIDS.” Listen to the interview below! [soundcloud url=”″ params=”color=ff5500&auto_play=false&hide_related=false&show_comments=true&show_user=true&show_reposts=false” width=”100%” height=”166″ iframe=”true” /]

Sex Crimes in Xtra

Francisco had an article featured in the last print edition of Xtra, “Sex crimes – HIV nondisclosure and the post-epidemic landscape“. Read the final print version of Xtra here. (Find Francisco on page 12)